Good suggestion with "Supernanny," Pat, I was thinking "Reba" :-)

Do everything you do for yourself and because it's a reflection of the person you want to be, not for the other person. They're always going to have a different perspective and you're always not going to give enough, hear bad things secondhand, etc. You know your heart and how much you love your daughter and I think she will (eventually) too.

It's very sad your daughter can't see beyond her own nose at the moment, is so anxious to get out on her own she doesn't recognize a good thing when she has it. (((Okie)))