It is hard to live as a people pleaser, because then you never feel good enough for anyone in any sense. It's very easy to get burned out from that. I know I have. I've never been in a relationship because I don't feel that I'm good enough for anyone (that, and because I'm paranoid). Life would be so much easier and better if we just didn't care too much what people think. Definitely keep working towards that; you'll be much better off.