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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna
You are correct. I have choose to stay with her yet I have yet to find anything of interest outside of our relationship and my weekends are consumed with us facilitating getting together. As for my job, I lucked into something I can't just leave and find at another company as its based on experience not education. So in short, my fear of not being able to support myself greatly out ways my lack of love in my current position. But anyway, I realize now that I have become the person who keeps complaining about the same thing over and over without trying to change it. I retracted the majority of my previous post and will try not to whine about things I'm not activly working to change in the future. , thanks  |
I was not saying you whine. I was just trying to say (and it is none of my business really) that by focusing on weekends with w, you stay stuck or go right back where you were before you left her unless something else changes. And that you focusing on what you want, that you can be alone and like it, and you get to choose what you like and interest/hobbies/fun for you would be, in my opinion, a good thing. Sorry if I was too blunt. I do hope you can find a new therapist or even try the skype thing if you think that might be useful.
I am all for healthy. But I do like to remember that women get to take up physical space in the world.