I'm trying to seduce my husband because he seems tired of me (for the past 5 years). Who has tips? We get along really well for the most part, rarely fight, both work out, 30 something DINKS. I feel like we are disconnected though, we barely talk about anything real anymore, he just obsessively plays games most of time we're home together. We barely have any intimacy at all, in my opinion, of course I guess a decade together will make any person less mysterious and exciting. I'm no super model, but my BMI is in the normal range, and guys hit on me so I cant be too bad looking. I've tried dressing sexier, changing my make-up/hair, changing things up in bed. I swear I'm not a ***** either. I've hit the point now where I'm just tempted to cheat, although I never will, the temptation of that is like another torture. How do I open up a line of communication? Is his asexuality (he's definitely not gay) or maybe just lack of interest in me a new permanent feature? He's a really great guy. I'd put the odds that he's cheating on me at .0001%.