Your husband sounds like the way I used to be. Gaming obsessed and distant. Get him out of the house, go to a movie or a bar for a drink, you drive, drive him to a secluded parking lot and have sex with him in the car. Show him there is something fun out there to do that is a little dangerous and exciting and that he can do it with you. Changing location can be fun. By tickets to a show and surprise him by taking him to a nearby hotel.
There are times I wished my gaming account was destroyed. It might have brought be back to the real world sooner and prevented the heartache that in part resulted from it in my marriage and my life.
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