I have been married to my husband for 9 years. We have 2 school age kids, and each had 2 kids when we married for a total of 6 kids. I have been in school for 3 years and will be done in January. My husband told me he cheated on me 2 days ago when I was out of the state at a presentation for school. I don't know what to do. I am so confused and scared. I love him very much, but I feel like he just ripped my heart out. We have had a very bad year, we have fought and threatened to leave each other many times. I feel like this was his way out? In my previous relationship I was cheated on many times, when we got together he knew this information and promised and swore he would never cheat. I told him then that I didn't think I could live with him cheating. I just want to rewind the last few weeks and make it go away. Help please