Hmmm... Yes I know... My problems are very tiny compared to others and also... solvable.. Yes... Trying to breakaway... i am at the very last stage of being patient and trying to fix things. He insists that I shouldn't leave him and neither will he. I am sort of scared to be alone on this - what if he does something rash. I am trying to reason out things. Will see... If nothing else works, need to keep my head up and move...