I have a couple of friends. Was married for 20yrs, divorced long time, good relationship with grown kids. Hard work. No longer interested in having a sexual partner, wouldn't mind a friend who wants to share the load and has similar goals, and who is my age at least, and still physically healthy. Have a "date" with my fav. aspie friend for a scrabble "tournament" next weekend, we will like end up taking a long walk also (he is a runner), a couple of beers and a meal. (might even cook). Lost too many people over the years...
I am okay in casual social situations but never had more than a few good friends. (1-3).
I am considering getting involved in a local activities-oriented place/group or just making sure to find a "tour" "group walk" (local historical society/library/theatre/senior center/Y/conservation groups/etc) "lecture" to attend weekly. (something different each time for a while, find some thing that fits)---reminds me, I'd better check the local calendar, see if there is something today or in the morning. (no parties, no online meetings (could be my age but likely my anxiety)