My girlfriend and I have been together for roughly five months. I am madly in love with her. She had a hysterectomy in August. Since then, she appears to be going through a deep depression. Our communication has worsened, and she has lost all interest in any intimate activities. She doesn't want to be touched. It all boiled over a few weeks ago when she said she needed space. She insists it is not me and that she doesn't want to be around anyone, not even her family. I am trying to ride this out but it is frustrating as hell. For one, I am not sure how this "space" works. She still texts me and calls me, and apparently expects me to call her. She apparently just started seeing a therapist a few days ago so I am hoping these issues will resolve. But I am not certain. I am asking for help. Anyone been through anything similar? How long should I give her space? Am I wasting my time? I am starting to feel depressed behind this whole thing. Thank you.