Thank you for bringing that up. It is manipulation in a sense. I told her last night I am turning my phone off today to give her time to think over what she needs and what she wants to tell me. She posts on tumblr how "everyone leaves" and "thanks a lot". I did not once state I was leaving. Rather, I gave her the space she seemed to want after picking fights, etc.

If you are a true friend of mine you know I don't just cut contact unless you've wronged me in some horrid way, or if I have committed a similar crime. I am not a mind reader. I cannot tell, from a different country, if something is going on if you don't tell me. We are adults. Talk to me like one. Treat me like one. And we can work it out. Be childish and jump to dramatic conclusions, and there is not working anything out.