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Originally Posted by kimmiemom
"The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. Read it, find out what his language is and start speaking it... You could walk in front of him all night with a black nightie on, if that's not his language, it's not going to bring you closer. Try it. It's a short, easy read or you can get it from the library on cd.
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I agree, on this book. I own it. Was a gift, unused. Each of us, is wired a certain way. Talks about Love Tanks, Love Languages, such as touch is some peoples primary, while act of service are another's.
Bringing intimacy back to a relationship, is more than just what happens, in the bedroom.
The fleeting thought, about cheating, speaks to your vulnerability and sense that you are missing on some needs within the relationship. Find out those needs, discover what's missing from him, and together, bring that spark back.
