Hi Kim. First of all, sorry to hear of your situation. It's tough to lose - or think about losing - someone we care about. I think, though, that if he is considering going to LA in December, you should keep your own options open. It's entirely possible if you're considering going there with him that there could be opportunities waiting for you there as well. You haven't mentioned if you're thinking about accompanying him. But also, if what you want to do is teach abroad, I say go for it. Follow your heart/gut, regardless of the outcome.