I have just recently felt like I've gotten over my ex and i feel like a fish out of water trying to learn to breath.. The water is "emotional attachment to someone", the sand is unfamiliar territory and it makes me want to jump back in the water "an emotional attachment" just to breath again.

I feel so uncomfortable right now. A relationship gives me an identity, attaching myself to someone gives me life and right now I am very uncomfortable with no attachment.

I want to stop myself from pursuing anything because I know it would be therapeutic.. I hope that I can learn to walk on the sand without jumping back in for awhile. I need to.