So sorry to hear...I can relate and appreciate what you are experiencing since I am hypersexual at times as well! Mine is due to being bipolar and when I'm in hypomania sex becomes an obsession and an addiction that is difficult to manage! For me medication is the only answer. I hate the meds as well, but staying on mood stabilizing drugs like Latuda and Lamictal keep me in line. So, does taking a benzo or a sleep aid help! All the best!!