Turns out the paperwork is uninsured workman's comp and he had 21 days to fill it out and it is way over the 21 days.... SO not even sure if it matters now if the paperwork is filled out or not...

Seems we can be "cordial" but on his terms...I don't need that type of person in my life.

Just totally surprised me that he got so nasty towards me and then his lovely family jumped in....and I am like "what happened"... Guess not only was I surprised, I was hurt.. Had nothing to do with him being married.. I told him he could bring his g/f for the Christmas dinners I would cook for his family.... And he did and I thought she was great.. Several years I'd cook Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner for his family and friends because they had no where else to go.

OH well... life goes on... one never stops learning....