well it looks like your at least trying to deal with it.my os and ihave had just about the same problem only while she did tell me about it, later denied it and the story has completely changed (the agreeded apon lie) i never agreed just got tired of hurting and fighting.im sure if things continue as they are we will be done.things being left like this feels like shes not sorry(or hasnt said so except out of the corner of her mouth if you know what i mean) and im not really sure its even over or have they just gotten sneaker and i dont really know if she is sorry. i do know that i feel like %#@&#! ive lost my best friend to distrust and you all are the only people ive ever admitted to.its to bad that this the route she has choosen (to not deal with it) i feel so alone even worse when i realize that i dont feel safe to talk about anything personal anymore. i have fake sexual desire well its only been 3 months i found out and only 1 month that i figure its been over if it is. i wouldnt tell anyone else about if were you but as you can see some things do need to repaired if you can. if anyone has any words of wisdom for me id be glad to hear them. i would have put my own post up i just cant figure out yet. HELP