Kind of a long story. Will make it short. AJ is 33.. We've been divorced 25 years.

Yes, we both moved on.... as in regard to our "relationship"... Just the new relationship that developed was the neighborly kind.... He would call me a lot and ask me to write letters for him... Or explain something that he didn't understand. He'd bring me food to cook for him. And if I needed anything, he'd get it for me...I seldom called him.. We were on friendly terms. I even got along with his mother.. Everything was cool....and friendly.........

And out of the blue, he stopped answering my phone calls, so I stopped calling him. ...
Guess it started when AJ's dad didn't tell him he remarried. AJ got the news from his g/f. And it was AJ"s g/f that told me that AJ's dad's sister was talking "nasty" about me...Like of all people, AJ's g/f.. If you know the history of AJ's g/f, then you would understand how hurtful it was that she was told before AJ that his father remarried....Guess it is all petty stuff. Should have known better to expect anything more from AJ's dad..

It isn't so much that I'm fretting over AJ's dad. I'm actually hurt and pissed that he started to mistreat me again.. One min he was nice the next he was hateful.. So I backed off and had no contact with him...

The thing is, when he "wants" something he is ooo so nice . I was surprised he came to the house this morning.. Why would he ignore me, say awful things to me and then out of the blue ask me to help him? If you treat me nasty I don't need you in my life. It was "AJ's father" that came to me. He is the one that needs to stop calling me...I stopped having any contact with him for several months ago...

Why then would I help someone that spit on me last week is the question.. If you thought someone was a "friend" and you were mistreated or betrayed by that friend, would you extend a helping hand when they asked for help?

He kicked me to the curb.. And now he asks me to help him? Doesn't make sense to me.. WHy doesn't his new wife or even his wonderful sister fill out the paperwork?

Bottom line is... After I cooled down.. I called him... Told him I don't have the answers to the questions on the forms and he said he'd tell me what to fill in the blanks with. omg... a thought just came to mind... but you prob don't want to hear what I'd fill the blanks in with...

All is cool seeker... I vented... he was and still is a pig... what can i say... Oh, and the paperwork has nothing to do with me. It is all personal info on AJ's dad...