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Originally Posted by Cracking Slowly
Oh no I'd never just kick him out. I'd give him plenty of time to prepare and have money saved and a plan. I just don't know if I should worry about him still living at home at. 21. I worry that I'm not forcing him to grow up because he has it so easy at home. He does pay bills so he helps out but I worry that he's content with just that. And I worry that my credit is so ruined that I couldn't buy a house. My credit is very bad due to divorce.
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I think there is a strong tendency for kids to live at home for a long time in these younger generations...totally normal...just not what we did. I can totally understand it though because they just can't get great jobs and why waste that on rent when you can get cool stuff. What about dating...is he bringing girls home...that is often the impetus kids need to get their own place, that or not liking the rules. Personally I'd let him live there, an empty nest is a boring one.