again......not thinking terribly clearly this a.m. but what springs to mind is actual convo we overheard from mental health provider to patient.....
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"well we are so proud of your recovery from the rape. you've done so much work to heal. now that you're leaving this shelter you'll need to continue with the therapy work. oh, one more thing.....you're fine as you are but just in case any potential rapists/abusers get the wrong idea you'd better wear victorian clothing and only walk in broad daylight.......we wouldn't want the rapists to get the wrong idea if you wore suggestive clothing or were out late in the dark."

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is this for real? blame the victim? seriously?

too angry with this reality to say more