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Originally Posted by FrayedEnds
I don't think you're being horrible at all, tinyrabbit.
Your friend sounds very self-absorbed especially since she KNOWS you've put off having your own baby and why. I think it goes beyond being just thoughtless.
I don't have any advice on how to handle it with her - I'm terrible at that myself.  I typically opt for one extreme or the other and then regret it. |
Thanks so much for your supportive response. It's hard because I don't want to hurt her. She's hurting me but she doesn't realise she's doing that. It seems worse if I hurt or upset her now as I'll know I'm doing it.
I feel like some people have a relationship with an idea of me, rather than me as I actually am, and she is one of them. That's not just down to her - I think I need better boundaries or something.