Dear duende,

Sorry for all the trauma you've been thru.

It sounds awful! After all....your privates are not some museum to put a procedure on public display in front of so many strangers! You were old enough to know what's going on and feel the pain and trauma....but too young to have any control over it.

Too much of nonsense has been going on in this world in the name of religion! Religion is for a direction in life, and not dictate terms and conditions on how you should live it!!

Hope you work with your therapist and recover from it.

Good luck!!