hay dude are you sure that your wife isnt thinking that your ready to bail and figures that shed be stupid to invest in your relationship???? try acting the way you want your relationship to be for awhile.dont argue its only selfeshness. express how you feel with like im lonely or im hurting im sure you get the picture. as far as kids growing up with single parent homes well i spend alot of taxes on new prisons and rehabs the truth is all around you