Try to put the blame and shame where it belongs......on the abuser; I know that is hard to do, and discuss all of it with your t. Yes, you can write down everything tht happened and perhaps come up with a plan if this kind of thing begins to start again.

HE was wrong; it didn't matter if you were standing there naked, he had no right or business in doing what he did. Don't take responsibility for other people's behavior......Hugs