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Eva1nder said:
What I'm having a really hard time with is getting the images of an almost 3year old child in a casket.

It just doesn't seem natural what so ever.

She had gone to the cemetary to release balloons w/the song "tears in heaven" on index cards.

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Just wanted to STOP in and let YOU know that I totally understand how you are feeling..... for it took ME around 4-5 years to get that exact image out of my mind / dreams when my only daughter passed away at age 10.

AND - "Tears In Heaven" was the SONG that my husband and I played at our daughter funeral, and then at our nieces a year later.... the two are buried next to each other - they share the same headstone - not some thing that I wanted to have in common with my older sister, but LIFE had different ideals.

((((((( HUGS ))))))) to YOU and your FRIEND..... <font color="purple"> PRAYERS going UP </font>

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

P.S.
VENT away as much as YOU need to - YOU will feeling better after wards.