well I am a very tolerant person and am desperite to have people like me .. except towards my partner, after his affairs it made it even worse, frankly i dont know why either of us are still together....that ones still up in the air....its a battle..... I guess i dont want to be hurt by someone so I leave first, dont want them to know the real me i guess... most of the time I would rather just be with my dogs and not have to deal with people....my dogs accept who i am with no judgement or agendas... i think we are each unique in our relationships with others...dont be hard on yourself we are all just trying the best we are able good luck