It's freaky. I don't want to be a martyr. Honest.... it's just I am the only one of my family that did "well". I have resources none of the others have. I am the only one who graduated with a degree. My sister in CT is great, and she'd take her, but she's in over her head caring for her severely disabled son. She tries really hard, and takes her for a few weeks when I ask. My oldest bro lives in GA, and rarely even checks in. My next bro is a schizophrenic who thinks he is Jesus and spends most of his life in institutions. The next is an alcoholic who is currently out of work and in foreclosure. Then there is the sister and brother who live here. It's so freaking hard.