life is simple .
we are born and we die,
in between these two points we breath a lot,
oh yes we have to make choices.
to be good or bad, kind or evil...etc....
we make things complicated , life is simple.
you sound to me like a thoughtful and kind person.
kindness is wisdom, wisdom is success in my book of life.
perhaps you need to believe in your self a little bit more.
i believe in you.
take care
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