Hi KD,
Changing boundaries especially with family is a tough job. Kudos to you for doing that!

Maintaining them with family is ALSO a tough job. I think you're hoping for the new behaviors to become the automatic, unconscious ones and I don't think that will happen. It could. But I think it will always take conscious effort on the part of your family members, and reminding from you.

Having said that, I suck at boundaries. Thank goodness we're all more rational with OTHER people's issues!

((((((KD)))))))

Okie