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Originally Posted by vans1974
Hey BrunetteBabe, sorry to hear about your losses. Time heals all wounds. Forget about this Jake dude, and this Natalie girl and focus all your energy on you or something positive besides them! The only way to get over somebody is to find someone better! Stay active and involved with something like work or school or sports or a hobby. Try to get your mind off your mind if that makes sense! Distraction is the key!! Feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to!! Best of luck!!
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Thank you so much vans1974! I appreciate your support very much. I appreciate your advice as well. I try really hard to get my mind off of things, but it never seems to work. I think about my grandfather and Mikey DURING my outings, and I even went to parties and hung out with my cousins and they kept me busy, but I still was thinking about them, and I was thinking about Jake. It seems that nothing seems to help, and that scares me. I hate feeling this way, and I just want them back. I want Jake back too believe it or not, the Jake that brought me out of my depression and brought happiness into my boring life....I want that Jake back. But I won't get that, and I won't have any of them back. I wish there really was a grim reaper, haha! I would bargain my life, to have My Grandfather and Mikey back. I feel like there never was a purpose for me and I feel like life is meaningless. I am hurt and sad, and I don't know how to deal.
Thanks again for your support and your condolences! I greatly appreciate it!