Thanks Alexandra. I agree, I am sensitive (which is a good quality in many respects, and also can be a problem in others), and I am empathetic too (usually). Perceptive fits too. I just need to work on perceiving what actually exists and not making it up.

I like Kohut a lot. Let me know how you like that book. I am interested in reading more about Self Psychology, as well as Linehan. And I saw parallels between Self Psychology and DBT as well. They both deal with relationships in a supportive way.