Thank you guys for your replys.
I do try and take someone with me if I can and it does help. Or make sure his parents are around when I drop the kids off. That way he keeps his crazy in check.

As far as having Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Maybe its that.
I've thought he was a narcissist or sociopath. I can't tell. All I know is that he doesn't feel things the way most people do and I don't know how much of his emotion he makes up to manipulate me and other people.

Leave it to me to marry a sociopath lol