Hi,

Last month i had a miscarriage and the funny thing is that my husband called as usual and just spoke a couple of words and thats it. He is away from home and i understand that he cannot be physically present but i expected him to provide more emotional support. Rather than that he said a few words that were supposedly sounding empathetic and thats it. When i asked him for more support emotionally as i am alone and jobless, he reverts back by saying i am emotionally demanding. I was totally depressed out one day and told him that i need to talk for which he says he needs his space, the circumstance is like that and that he would have to call me back. After considerable amounts of fights he asks em to find someone else if i am not happy with him and when i ask him during one such argument whether this meant nothing to him, he ends up replying that it was just five weeks and its just a dead fetus! Although i understand that this might be a difficult thing for men to comprehend what i do not understand is that do all of them act like this? Rather is it normal behaviour, cos i am being told that men percieve miscarriage differently. Which i understand but do they not support emotionally if required?
Please revert back if you are a man and reading this. I genuinely need help.