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Originally Posted by FeelingOpaque
Yea, may have over exagerated that part, but never the less, it was a douchey thing to do and was a form of assault or harassment, regardless of your pass sexual abuse.
I've never been sexaully abused, but if some girl i was talking up came up to me sitting in the bathroom corner staring blankly at nothing and she starts rubbing my penis I'd feel extremely uncomfortable and used. Especially if she locked the door behind her.
What he should have done is sat next to you and comforted you, not sexualized you. That was his wrong, not yours.
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Douche-y does NOT equal sexual assault. The door was apparently not locked. If a person is staring blankly right when you walk in, but then answers you, you don't necessarily know that she is totally out of it. He did stop and leave when she went numb and shut down. I just don't think we can leap to the conclusion that this is a sexual assault given the apparently (from an outside perspective) consensual nature of the contact throughout the evening.
I do get this is upsetting and there are reasons why the OP might shut down and not say no. I'm just saying from an outside perspective, looking only at the parties' actions during the party, no way is this a sexual assault.