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Old Nov 13, 2013, 02:05 PM
FeelingOpaque FeelingOpaque is offline
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Originally Posted by My kids are cool View Post
I do get this is upsetting and there are reasons why the OP might shut down and not say no. I'm just saying from an outside perspective, looking only at the parties' actions during the party, no way is this a sexual assault.
Actually, that is where you are wrong. It doesn't matter what somebody did before the fact. She could have grabbed his penis at the dining room table, but in that moment when she was sitting in the corner, he assaulted, harassed, took advantage of, whatever you want to call it, it was not okay, and the idea that it is somehow okay is part of the ridiculous rape culture in this countries in which men feel they can do whatever they want as long as the girl/ women isn't screaming no at the top of their lungs.
Thanks for this!
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