Hi Magicmum, it's a terrible emotional rollercoaster when you are waiting for the diagnosis. I thought we were NEVER going to get it ( son 12 dx with ASD aged 8 ), and then when we did I kinda felt like I was handed the diagnosis and drop kicked out into the world. I live in KK and I see you are in Ireland too so I am fully aware of what you are facing as our services are just terrible.

I am a member of a couple of support groups on Facebook and actually ran a support group myself for over a year so if you ever want to talk, or are interested in joining one of the groups please let me know.

The most important thing is support from other folks who are going through what you are and to get tips and advice on how to deal with situations with you Son.

It's always amazed me how much I picked up from talking to others and how much their tips and tricks have helped make things easier, afterall who best to give you ideas than those who have tried and tested them.

I wish you the very best of luck.