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"When you present facts that contradict her beliefs, she bamboozles you by going on off-topic tangents,"
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~ummm this is not a BPD thing, it's something that many women do and not isolated to women either, many PEOPLE do this. WTF?
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When you try to explain your feelings or point of view, this kind of woman may explicitly tell you to, “Shut up!” Narcissists, borderlines and bullies not only “can’t handle the truth,” they go to great lengths to deny and obliterate it.
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I'm sorry but first off the friggin fact that it equates NPD or BPD with bullies is off putting. for one thing I am far from being any sort of bully and in fact, have been rather acommodating at the expense of myself and very submissive. Being argumentative because one does not want to admit something is not even a "BPD trait" it's a human one.
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Your wife or girlfriend probably uses other tactics when you challenge her like walking out of the room, giving you the silent treatment or simply refusing to listen to you. In both cases, this is the adult control freak’s version of, “La, la, la, la, la, I can’t hear you! I can’t hear you!” They believe if they ignore or stop you from speaking the truth that it doesn’t exist like a small child who closes their eyes to “make you go away.”
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Funny, I was the BPD in my most recent relationship and you know what? I was not the one to walk away nor give the silent treatment. ever. And the fact that so far it singularly points to women as bpd as if men don't even come into play bothers me.
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3. Name-Calling. This is the last resort of bullies...
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ok I'll stop the quote right there. once again as if bpd people are bullies. In so many cases we're the bullied ones. At least in my case it's true. Funny thing is also, this is another huge generalization. Plenty of people do stupid things like name-calling and in no way does it define a BPD person or even a bully for that matter. That's hilarious. People in all roles do this at times. I definitely am not the only one in the fights I've had that called someone a blankety blank. on the other hand I've been called everything from a "little man" (belittling me purposely) to complete "***" more times than I can count. And she is not BPD diagnosed either.
I'm not quoting anymore this is clearly a bullsh__ article. Thing is if as I read more it's funny, most of it is things that my ex did quite a bit of.