I couldn't resist. I had to comment.
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This is friggin hilarious. As a divorced male, I can say that 90% of the crap that was listed as things a bpd woman will do are exactly what my ex did. Know what’s funny? #1 I’m male. #2 I’m the one Dx’d with BPD. yes those things, I’m sure some bpd women/men/people do in fights, and relationships but the fact of the matter is none of it defines bpd or is typical of it. On top of that plenty of just toxic people that aren’t necessarily bpd do these things. My ex is Bipolar and ADHD. Hmmm maybe all BP/ADHD women do this? Talk about some serious misunderstanding of a disorder, not to mention a very misleading article.
More specifically what i have a problem with – BPD people aren’t typically bullies. In fact in my case i was the submissive/acommodating one and she didn’t even leave because I’m so terrible, she did it to play the field. I was never the one to leave the room, and/or give the silent treatment. She was. I always wanted to finish what was started.
Name calling? Seriously? Come on, can you really blame a disorder of any kind for heated statements right up to name calling? I’m not completely guilt free but I pose to each and every one of you. Please. cast the first stone.
The use of the word asylum, bully and other things on this article begs the question, who are you to say anything about name calling anyway when you’re equating people with bpd as bullies and basically “insane”? Seriously not an objective article whatsoever.
Sounds a bit jaded to me. Feel free to flame me now but know what the hell you’re talking about if you do. Thanks.
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