I wasn't going to post on this one but I have to.
first of all Andrew you do what you think is best to "win" her back over. the problem is these days most people stop working at relationships after they are married. At least she is considering counseling at this point. that is a plus.

razel don't you think you calling his wife stupid and a ***** is a little harsh? maybe it isn't if you know them but geesh! I would not want anyone calling my husband names like that even if I did post our issues here. just my thoughts. please think before name calling.