tomi........you and i have been at pc quite a while and watched it weather many storms.......we will get through this one too.....what everyone needs to remember is that ALL of us have issues here....ALL of us are suffering in some ways..and we ALL react differently to things said to us.....we need to try hard to remain supportive.....not take sides or interfere in matters that are between 2 people even if both those people are our friends......listen with our hearts and try to bring peace to pc.....tomi....you and i have had our disagreements....lol.....but i respect you and i will always aim at trying to keep communication open between us......i'm here for you and i'm here for all my friends and the newcomers to pc....as we say from time to time around here......"let there be peace..and let it begin with me".......let's put our differences aside and work at our common goal...that each of us an find some peace and comfort here among those who should understand us the best.......