Well, this is a Jared problem YET AGAIN... we used to spend time with eachother every day, despite the fact that he goes to school and I dont. But now, he is in school all day, and I take one class at 3:30-4:30ish. You know, he really is not a busy guy. He could call me when hes done with school, just to say hi or something, since hes to tired to call in the mornings, but each night, when I call him (around 5, after giving him an hour to call) he always says "Babe, can I call you back later? Im skating right now" I always say okay, and ask when, and he says "in a half hour" so Im like, well, skatr boarding is our passion...Ill let him go today. But then that ends up being EVERY day, and he is either by himself, with his friends, or with a girl, and hes usually with this girl named Cassey, from his old neighborhood, who he says "is like his sister"...so I dont know. I understand that he has a life, and that he needs time to himself. But seriously. He makes NO EFFORT WHAT SO EVER to spend time with me. I know that sitting around my house isnt so much fun, but theres not much else that he wants to do but skate board, and I understand what its like to love skating, hell, its a big part of my life too, but hes my boyfriend. Im his girlfriend. I talk to him all the time about this saying "You dont spend any time with me anymore, and I cant be with you if your not going to be here for me. I know it hard being with me when I have all these problems, but baby, I TOLD you I was a big responsibility, I told you a million times before we got together.." and he says "I know, I know, and it gets annoying with all ur problems, but Ill try to be here" AND HES NOT TRYING, (and I told him that too) We got back together a week and a half ago after an argument, and Ive only seen him once since then, and then again for about ten mintues when we ran into eachother at a store. I know he still cares, because last night I went running and I have breathing problems, and he called while I was having a panic attack, and came and got me...but my dad was already on his way, but Jared still waited with me, and I thought that was sweet, BUT even my DAD asked why Jared didnt just come home with me. its so ridiculous, I can handle not seeing him for lke 3 days...but I think if you are in a serious relationship you should be seeing eachother every day. Thats normal. Im not asking for alot. Just effort, and he doesnt get it, I love him, ALOT, but hes beginning to waste my time, my tears, AND my energy.