Fonglai, I can relate to you so much. I too have 3 children and they are wonderfull but I feel like going off in the car and not coming back. I too am married but my husband works in the evening and I feel like a lone parent. Your husband needs to realise that you have just came out of hospital and you need all the support you can get. Sometimes I think husbands feel they are in the way, and other times they use that as an excuse not to help. I know my doctor talked to my husband about this. We as women are more tuned into when people are struggling and men have to be told. They just dont pick up on it even if the kids are screaming and you are having a meltdown. I wish you all the best and you can message me anytime.