I've run into this situation several times at school now, where I see that someone I know cuts because I spotted their scars or unusually large number of bracelets. I know that you're obviously supposed to say something and help if your friend harms, but what about for people you really don't know that well? Like, you know each other but not much beyond that.

I always really really want to help but I feel like that would be creepy going to them and saying "hey dude I know that you cut yourself do you wanna talk about it". That seems very stalker-ish.

Any suggestions or guidelines for these types of situations?

- AJ