Wow, that's a really great question AJ. As a person who's done if for years, sometimes all I wished was for someone to be friends with me, and talk to me - but I didn't have many friends, if any at all. I think, one way you could do it, is to just go up to them one day, and talk. Maybe become friends. Cutting is definitely something serious, but sometimes it's not necessarily the best choice for a first conversation topic. I feel like... if someone only decided to talk to me because of my SI, then they would consider me as a charity case, or they pitied me. I know that everyone is different, but maybe if you just try to be their friend first, then that could also make all the difference. I can tell that you would make a great friend