Yes, my hub was so frustrated with me last Sun he was stomping around the house. Never mind I wasnt telling him the minute he left I was planning to go to the hospital! (He was getting ready for a biz trip). I didnt end up going, I saw my T the next morning so I just held on. He did at least offer to cancel Thanksgiving but I figure I have 2 weeks to try and get myself together, its only 4 days and in my case I know he and my mother will help put it together. Its at my house this year only because I'm doing this for my son. I will sacrifice for my kids and this one son is about to be stationed as a single soldier to Italy for 3 years away from his momma. But yeah, family doesnt get it, I do my best to fake it except with hub. And he only gets half of it. I'm a quiet bp'er.