In a way I can understand how hard it would be for my H to change. He was raised to respect women.
Part of me always thought that all men wanted to do these things in the bedroom, but by reading & talking to people living the life that sometimes it just doesn't work.
So we're vanilla w/ swirls of...another flavor. I guess I should be happy w/ the changes we've made, but when I get in the mood I end up watching porn & I feel like I'm cheating on him & my marriage.
Myself & fantasy don't go well together....lines can get blurred.

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