I am not sure exactly what to say but I have to mention a couple of things that kind of concern me.

Your description of him seems to lack much negativity at all... in fact any possible negative aspect of him seems to brushed off as if it's all just your own fault even thinking anything possibly flawed with this guy. It's almost as if you've described a perfect man in your mind. It concerns me because it makes me wonder how much of this is the real guy and how much of it is your overlooking any negatives and writng them off. He almost sounds like he's not even human.

I'm not trying to be harsh. Just wondering if that's ever crossed your mind.

Secondly, the fact that when he was a bit inhebriated that he said he "loved" both of you. That's not love, that's lust. Which is entirely possible, but unless you're willing to get into a relationship with a man that is quite honestly open to showing his desire fro more than one woman at a time, I don't know that this is a minor problem.

My gut feeling, and I could be wrong, is this guy, if he truly looks that honest, perfect and wonderful to you.. I don't know.. I just feel like there's moer to this guy than you really know.

Honestly? Tread carefully. I hope you're right about all those things (other than the duality of his desire) I would be happy to hear it works out for you.