Ok i have a question about women. Trust me when it comes to females and how their emotions and mnds work, I can safely say I'm pretty clueless. So if this comes off as dumb... so be it. I've already said I'm an idiot with girls so.. don't point that out

Ok so I'm not actively pursuing any women as gfs nor am I really all that keen on having a relationship. Am I against it 100%? no. But I'm just not pushing the issue within my current life. If one comes along and it works out, so be it.. but if not.. I'm fine too.

I know that typically males including myself can misinterpret the things that women say/do and the attention that they give to me. At times I've been known to completely miss the flirting and not even realize it happened until some third party lets me know just how clueless I really am. So I go right along possibly missing a few ladies that may have been interested. yeah I'm bad at reading the female being (yes that's meant as a pun, referring to just how foreign women are to me heh)

So I'm wondering. When a woman is interested in a man for more than just a buddy/confidant/friend, how is a man to know? I know that women will not typically be overt about it and the ones that are probably are not the ones I would want to have anything with anyway... What kinds of things do they say or do? Are there specific cues to say "hey I really like you.." ? The part that is confusing is, women can be sweet and accomodating, at least in my experience, but not mean anything more than "hey you're a nice guy."... but I have a hard time differentiating between that and the "more" kind of comment.

Mind you I'm speaking mostly of women online becuase frankly, I don't do RL meetings with women well. So keep that in mind.

Maybe there's not one single answer but perhaps there are certain things you can tell me to help me understand.

Sorry for rambling.
S4