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Originally Posted by bubsmiley
Oh honey, yes it is definitely abusive.
Where are you now? What is your current situation? Are you safe? There are many hotlines that you could call to get help, but it is complicated for an adult and even harder for someone so preciously young. Do you have another relative you could live with if it were necessary (a grandparent or aunt/uncle who isn't using drugs/alcohol)?
I encourage you to find someone to talk to - a guidance counselor, a member of clergy, a teacher or someone's parent. I've walked down your path alone and it doesn't lead to good places - just more hurt and fear.
PM me if you want to talk more and please don't apologize for taking up time or asking for help. PC can be the family you always wanted and clearly don't have.
Bub  |
Thank you so much, Bub
I am at home, with my father, and everything is mostly stable here. I am safe. My mom is okay now, she just got out of rehab. She's relapsed a couple times, but she is doing well. I am safe. Thank you for the advice, I appreciate it
I can't call a hotline, though, my phone is broken, and I would never have the courage anyways. Anyways, at home with my father, there usually isn't alcohol or drugs. But when I am with my mom, if I needed to, I would be able to call my uncle or grandma, and one of them would take care of it.
And thank you. I really think talking to a counselor would benifet me, but my father seems to, unfortunately, have something against conselors. I want to set up an appointment with my school's guidance councelor, but I don't know if he usually does stuff like this for students. I have only heard of students coming to him on advice about school things. Also, I am afraid he would tell my dad :/ If my dad knew what happened with my mom, he would never let me see her again, AND he would be very, very mad at me for not telling him.
Thank you so much
I really appreciate it
I am looking forward to having PC be my family
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Originally Posted by BLUEDOVE
Oh,its abuse alright . . .and then some! You are a
very intelligent young man,and as bub says,you need to get help from some caring adult,or phone a
help line. I am very impressed with your writing and obvious intellect,not forgetting your courage.
Please contact someone to help you. I'll say prayer
for you to keep you safe.
Deepest Respect,
BLUEDOVE
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Thank you BLUEDOVE
I appreciate it
By the way, I am a girl :P Anyways, thank you for the compliments
As I mentioned before, I'll try to see if I can talk to my school councellor. Thank you so much I really do appreciate it