According to doctors, men have erections all through the night and morning wood is the last of them. Apparantly your penis exercises to keep in shape while you sleep, its not a sign of sexual frustration per sé.
Anywayyy, I'm sorry you think every erection qualifies you for sex, I can only imagine the millions of unhappy puberty age boys with their surprize erections, if they feel as entitled as you.
Also,

I have trouble imagining a world where this is acceptable... should people stop dead in their tracks, cooking, learning, working, etc because an erection interrupted?
What I find sad is that through all your protests and questions and members explaining and empathizing, you still refuse to acknowledge the error in your thinking.
When a girl on a dating site says "no hook up" shouldn't you WANT to meet her because she's looking for a bf?
You did say you want a gf no? Someone mutually exclusive to rock your world whenever you have a boner?
So why skip the those potential gf's, because they're not willing to have sex on the first date?
Is that an actual deal breaker for you?
If so, best buy a prostitute to have and to hold from this day forward. Think about it, she'll fk on the first night, and if you own her a.s.s she can't ever see any other man naked again!
Although I heard this rumour that slavery was abolished recently

so that may be a tad bit difficult to pull off.
You are very self-absorbed, everything is me me me, while you whine about it supposedly being her her her and that's ok, its an observation, not a judgement. ( I promise, I'm straightforward AND honest, so will tell you if and when I do judge you).
Buuut, your mememe isn't a huge problem, some women go for that, it allows them to cater to their man and make them feel useful.
You probably chase off women because you give off a rapey vibe. Not that you'd force a woman, I'm not saying that. Its just clear that a good fk is your main priority and women don't feel safe around such men, especially strangers, no matter how well behaved he was on the 3 occasions you met for an hour long date each...
Here's a piece of solid advice: search for compatability instead of ( but including) a warm body.
Seek out a woman with similar goals, needs and wants. That way you won't think its her her her, it will instead be we we we and you'll stop *****ing about how aweful women are.