Everyone gets horny at different times. If you choose to not masturbate because it's not as satisfying as being with a partner.. well.. that stinks to be you, but that's your perogative. Many people who are in relationships still masturbate.
Also... I think most guys would probably say that the worst time to have an erection is when you're out in public and can't do a thing about it. When they're at home they can masturbate and feel happy about it.
There isn't a double standard. Females want to have sex just as much as guys do.
However. If you want to have a relationship, many people want to KNOW the other person before they have sex with them. This is done for many reasons, one of which is to ensure that the other person is also wanting a relationship and is not just around for sex. If someone just wants to have sex, they'll stop seeing that person or they will be upfront about it.
If you are always available when the women want to have sex.. that's all well and good. But it doesn't meant that they will always want to have sex. You might just have a larger sex drive. That's your issue, not theirs. You are free to turn down sex when they want it too. Just because you always say yes does NOT obligate them to also always say yes.
And again - when women first meet you, there is NO WAY to know that you're not abusive. Absolutely none. There's nothing to tell them that you are not a huge creep who is just out for sex until they have gotten to know you more. And the fact that you ARE just out for sex... doesn't help you out too much. You've already stated that you don't want to hear about any of their issues and you've complained about them wanting to talk about things... and that you view intimacy as being completely related to sex and not to anything else. Yet you don't want friends-with-benefits and you claim you don't want a hook up. But everything you describe is just wanting a steady hook-up - which is friends-with-benefits. It's caring/friendship and steady sex - without the emotional intimacy.
And quite frankly - if you're on a date, there is clearly some sexual attraction. You aren't going to go on a date with someone that you don't feel physically attracted to, unless you know them well as a person already. But physical attraction doesn't mean needing or wanting to have sex ASAP. So all the women you date KNOW that you are attracted to them, so no one expects you to pretend not to. But they do expect you to respect them. And they want to know you. Clearly... when they get to know you, they decide to move on.
" I am soooo friggin bored already with that game.
I am just pretending to court you when in fact I can't stand the dating process."
That right above? What you just said? That is why you cannot get a single woman to go home with you. You are insincere. You are manipulative. You are a user. You are fake. You are phony. You are selfish. You are inconsiderate. That is what I have learned about you through your own words throughout your various threads. And I have not even spent an hour with you.
And if you spend all day thinking about sex and the fact that you've got an erection? That is your problem. Deal with it at home. Stop expecting women to be your slaves. We're not objects. If you really want to go for asinine stereotypes... try being a woman and listen to all the sexist crap that gets spewed at us from men all the time. Experience being treated like an object instead of like a person. Give that a go.
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